Posts in Heart
Defining Reality and Giving Hope

The great general Napoleon Bonaparte is credited with saying: “The role of the leader is to define reality and give hope.” While true at all times, this is especially true during times of severe crisis – such as the one we’re currently facing.  This is when leaders need to balance realism with optimism.

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Is He Worthy?

These are dark days. The threat of the COVID-19 pandemic is growing more and more serious. The infection rate is soaring. Hospitals are being overwhelmed. The death rate is advancing. For those of us in church leadership, this Easter will be unlike any other in our lives.

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Bend But Don't Break

What an unbelievable time we’re living in! The other day, my wife quietly observed, “It’s almost surreal. This can’t be happening.” Yet it is. As a pastor or church leader you’ve faced crises before, but none like this.

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From Associate to Lead Pastor

Most of the young leaders that I’m coaching began their ministry as an associate pastor. Many were youth pastors. Others were small group pastors. Then, the opportunity arose for them to move into the left seat of the cockpit and become the lead pilot for the ministry plane.

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Facing Down Uncertainty

The Old Testament is filled with illustrations of great leaders: Moses, Joshua, Esther, David, Hezekiah, Josiah, etc.  I love to read of their exploits and marvel at their victories. Yet there’s another who is right at the top of my list of favorites.  It’s the son of King Saul – Jonathan. 

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The Friendless Pastor, Part 2

Many pastors have very few true friends.  Frankly, it’s made many of those in the ministry among the most lonely of people. In part one of “The Friendless Pastor,” I offered some of the reasons why pastors struggle in this area. However, having identified those, how do we change that situation? 

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Recovering From the Christmas Rush

For many, work slows down during the Christmas season.  Children are off school.  College students are on semester break. Some businesses actually shut down in the week between Christmas and New Year’s.  Many individuals simply use vacation or personal days. Pastors don’t have that opportunity.

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A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood

Tom Hanks is, hands down, my favorite actor.  My guess is that many of you appreciate him as well for his portrayals in such iconic films as “Saving Private Ryan,” “Forrest Gump,” “Cast Away,” and “The Green Mile” to name just a few. However, this month Hanks has a new movie coming out in which he plays a surprising character: Fred Rogers.  Depending upon your age, you more likely know him as Mister Rogers.

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A Breaking In From Above

It was a special opportunity to go fishing with an old friend.  As we shared our time on the water, he brought me up to speed on his battle with prostate cancer. “Right now the numbers are good,” he said.  “But soon I will have received all the radiation and hormone treatment that is allowable.  Things might well change then.”

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Characteristics of a Teachable Person

In my previous post I outlined some characteristics of an unteachable person.  Now I’d like to offer the flip side to that and provide some characteristics of a teachable person.

To begin with, teachability is not so much about competence and mental capacity as it is about attitude. It is the desire to listen, learn, and apply. It is the hunger to discover and grow.

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