Making Music with the Master

A wonderful story is often told about an incident in the life of Poland's famous concert pianist, Ignacy Paderewski.  A mother took her small child to a concert by Paderewski to expose him to the talent of the great pianist.  She hoped as she did to encourage her son in his piano lessons, which he had just begun and was struggling to continue.   

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Sent Ones

Whenever I cast the vision to those I’m coaching that they need to live with an outward focus, the issue often boils down to the challenge of finding time. “I get it,” they say. “I know I should be more intentional about this, but I’m simply swamped.  I can’t imagine having any space in my schedule to engage lost people.”

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A Friend to Hold Your Hand

In his book, When All You’ve Ever Wanted Isn’t Enough, Rabbi Harold Kusher tells a great story about the value of friends.

I was sitting on a beach one summer day, watching two children, a girl and a boy, playing in the sand.  They were hard at work building an elaborate sand castle by the water’s edge,

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Tough Love

I have this odd pattern inside of me. When somebody is speaking into my life, if they compliment me, I'm quite ready to hear that.  I love hearing in graphic detail how well I’m doing and where I’m growing.  It makes me feel so good. But if they're going to say something that is confrontational about my character, about my need for growth, such “bad news” isn’t nearly as welcome.

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The Power of Perspective

The coed had two problems common to many college students: low grades and no money.  She was forced to communicate both to her parents, whom she knew would have a problem understanding. After considerable thought she decided to use a creative approach to soften the blows of reality.  Here’s what she wrote in her letter home:

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Just Show Up

The story is told about how a little girl was late walking home from school.  Her worried mother, while relieved to finally hear the girl come into the house, spoke sharply to her about her tardiness. “Where have you been?  I told you to come home immediately after school,” the mother said.

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