Sent Ones

Whenever I cast the vision to those I’m coaching that they need to live with an outward focus, the issue often boils down to the challenge of finding time. “I get it,” they say. “I know I should be more intentional about this, but I’m simply swamped.  I can’t imagine having any space in my schedule to engage lost people.”

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A Friend to Hold Your Hand

In his book, When All You’ve Ever Wanted Isn’t Enough, Rabbi Harold Kusher tells a great story about the value of friends.

I was sitting on a beach one summer day, watching two children, a girl and a boy, playing in the sand.  They were hard at work building an elaborate sand castle by the water’s edge,

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Tough Love

I have this odd pattern inside of me. When somebody is speaking into my life, if they compliment me, I'm quite ready to hear that.  I love hearing in graphic detail how well I’m doing and where I’m growing.  It makes me feel so good. But if they're going to say something that is confrontational about my character, about my need for growth, such “bad news” isn’t nearly as welcome.

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The Power of Perspective

The coed had two problems common to many college students: low grades and no money.  She was forced to communicate both to her parents, whom she knew would have a problem understanding. After considerable thought she decided to use a creative approach to soften the blows of reality.  Here’s what she wrote in her letter home:

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Just Show Up

The story is told about how a little girl was late walking home from school.  Her worried mother, while relieved to finally hear the girl come into the house, spoke sharply to her about her tardiness. “Where have you been?  I told you to come home immediately after school,” the mother said.

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Bringing Down the Curtain

The original recipients of this text would have heard these words with an awe and wonder that we could never know.  They were very familiar with the curtain of separation described here. Sixty feet tall, thirty feet wide, and six inches thick it hung in the Temple in front of the most sacred of all spaces – the Holy of Holies.  This was an area that was completely off-limits. Worshipers in that day were governed by strict rules of access. 

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