Posts tagged conflict
Stress' Unintended Victims
Stress' Unintended Victims

The comments I’m hearing from the pastors I’m dealing with are growing in their consistency and intensity. They are all feeling overwhelmed (“The burden of leadership is so heavy!”, disillusioned (“I didn’t sign up for this!”), and perplexed (“I don’t know what steps to take!”).

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Relationships, Heart, SkillsDave DeSelmEveryday Pastor, pastors, relationships, stress, stressed out, family, conflict, anger, frustration, disgust, fear, forgive, forgiveness, seek forgiveness, apologize, Marcus Warner, Dr. Marcus Warner, Building Bounce, listen, listen for emotion, relational circuits, calming, quietingComment
5 Relational Keys for Senior Pastors and Worship Leaders
5 Relational Keys for Senior Pastors and Worship Leaders

We’ve all heard of “worship wars” in the church.  They’re usually about musical styles – those who want contemporary music vs. those that prefer the traditional. They can be contentious and divisive. But perhaps even more costly to the life of a church are the “worship wars” that often take place between the senior pastor and the worship leader. 

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Skills, Relationships, Pastoring 101Dave DeSelmEveryday Pastor, pastors, Pastor, church, worship, worship leader, Worship Pastor, Senior Pastor, worship wars, conflict, relationships, unity, partnership Comment